Thoughts, Thoughts & more Thoughts..

I was reading a blog post on how every person comes to our life for a purpose & we right away know they are here to teach us a lesson. This small question has started a chain of thoughts in my mind. A lot of questions popped into my mind.

  1. If we know every person if here for some definite purpose, how do we come to know if their stay in our life is temporary or permanent.
  2. How do we know when their purpose has ended. What if you fight but still that person ends up being in your life for some more time. Does this mean their purpose has not ended or does this mean you’re winning from God for some time.
  3. Are their any people in our life who come for a permanent purpose?
  4. After their purpose has ended, what if we don’t want to let them go. What if we are ready to take the hurt & not let them go. 

I am going to focus on the last question. Because that is what the title suggests too. A person came to your life for a purpose & it has ended. You know it, they know it & the universe is telling you that. But somehow you don’t want to let them go. God has his way of sending people out of you life, but you’re not letting this one person go. It all starts with fights, you still don’t want them to go. Then it moves on to hurt, you still don’t want to let them go. This goes on & on, but you’re not willing to move. All this time, are you winning from God or their purpose was pseudo-completed which you thought had completed & is yet to finish completion. Will you be successful in winning each time or will God send that person out of your life somehow. Will God change his decision of he knows where your happiness lies. Or will he still send the person out of your life when he knows its time. At the end, is it your happiness or God’s decisions?

These questions remain unanswered. I would love to hear the answers, if someone has them.

Do think if you’ve gone through this situation.