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“Why Live when we are going to die one day?”

This was a question a 13-year-old asked me, which left me speechless as to how a small child could think so deep. I thought a lot and then I knew what I had to tell her. We need to live because God loves us. God gave us Life with a beautiful body, an intelligent mind and a thoughtful heart. He made an entire universe, made atleast few people who’d be our companions (friends) and gave us a family who’d love us unconditionally. He made some people funny, some philosophical, some serious and some bubbly. All of this was done to balance out each and every person, each and every emotion. For every angry person, they’d be a cheerful person; for every disgraceful thought, they’d be a thoughtful genuine thought.

Life is all about experiencing it all. It may not be a rosy path, but there’s certainly no fun in a path that dosenot include adventures and new lanes along with a lot of surprises. If we always knew how our life shall be, one day we’d be bored and probably wait for the end. Life is that path, that lets you explore the surprises and add thrill and excitement to them. Life is about experiencing every emotion that you can feel, communicating with every kind of person in terms of culture, country or the sense of thought.

 Life is just not perfect but the imperfections work well if you let it live its pace. The experiences may not always be good but there’ll be surely some instances that’d make you smile when you are about to die. There would be some people around you who would want to reverse back time and re-live life with you when you are about to die. There shall be memories etched in your forgetful mind that shall well up your eyes when you’re about to die. There shall be instances that might have brought tears when they occurred but now you can’t help but laugh at your stupidity. There shall be music you shall have drowned in, delicacies you would have savored, continents you’d have travelled and explored. There shall also be moments where you had felt dying would be easy, but you cross those phases. There shall have just one moment, which shall force you to tell god – Dear God, please let me live more. All of these are few reasons we need to live for, and not just think of death before we even start living.

We take our life too seriously and in the process forget living. The lesson she learnt now shall remain with her forever, in her happy moments and her low times. The passion to Live should be ignited at intervals with positive energy, excitement and lots of lively thoughts. And if you won’t ignite, someone else will. Despite all the negativity, Life is worth living, not just dragging. Give it a chance.

That was a small chapter of Life from the book of thoughts on Life from my heart. Hope it shall make atleast 1 person S.M.I.L.E ! Thanks for reading.

Ankita.


"Children need Love"

The boy screamed – “Mom, we are leaving the house. We hate you” and shuts the door in anger, while his sister follows him. The woman sits there confused but she had other important things to care about-her social circle, her society status, her vacations. She was least bothered about her two children who grew in front of her eyes yet she never realized that they had crossed their teens. But today was different, her husband was amidst a financial crisis and her children wanted to leave the house. This pressure was very difficult for her to handle. She sat there in thought – “ We have always given every comfort to our children. Yet they always fight but this is the limit. This is just going out of hand” .

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Finally its the End of 2010 hereby welcoming 2011 !! Its an year of Hopes, Smiles and Memories. The Year started on a Great Note with this New Years Party at home. It was a huge Get Together along with good Music, Food and some Great Memories. The best part was celebrating it with Cousins *yess i lovee them*.It was good to get ready after a long long time. Then good to see so many people and clicking photographs. It was just a happy way to welcome 2011 hoping it to be a good year. The party went and it was 12 o clock. We had a Countdown which finally ended with Cake cutting and Cake Smashing session.

Instead of giving the cake to anyone , I ate it myself which was funny. Because everyone expected I will give it to somebody atleast *evil grin*. Tehn started the best part. Cake smashing but in the end I was smashed the MOST. I looked like the Birthday Girl who has been smashed by lots of people. And yes I shouted too. And also snatched the Choco Welcome 2011 tag from my Bhabi who was gonna eat that away *superfun*. The Party ended with lots of Photographs with everyone. Some nice Family Photos Collection.

Finally we had some Dance and then some Cousins Gupshup Session. At 2 am in the night, we hogged on some Chocos and Desserts. This was the Super welcome to 2011. Hoping it would be full of Super Memories and some Adventure. Starting the Adventure with my Trip to Chennai and Pondicherry. Heres a Toast to a Super 2011 for me and everyone else. All my Friends and Family, Stay Super Blessed !!

And I hope to remain active on my Blog.

Lots of Love and Smiles,
Anku/Ankita


I got a week to spend with my little cousin.. He just turned 4 this Saturday and spending so much time with him made 1 thing clear- Children have their own fairy land 🙂 :).. This land is just unique to every kid and innocent to the core.. Kids have their own fantasy stories which have no starting and no end.. They are just stories which are surely gonna bring a smile to your face :).. The concept maybe based on something they say or something they like..

My cousin is crazyy about Cars so he was always into them.. Loads of cars and stuff for him and still he wants more.. Whenever he was bored, he didnot need a person to listen to his stories or randomings, He would just go on and on.. Kids are so innocent at heart that if you shout at them, they would just start crying.. They dunt know if they have done right or wrong but they know if someone is shouting means start crying..Haha yeah they are surely very smart.. But their Smiles and their innocence melts your heart..

Playing with them is an absolute joy and such a stress releifer.. You automatically become a child and forget all the tensions for a while.. When you make them eat or when u have to stop them for crying, you need to be innovative and try out new tricks 😛 ;-).. You have to be on your toes to keep them entertained.. One dosent realize that it we who is getting entertained in the whole process :).. Kids are living their best life but they want to grow up.. They dunt know that a real world is waiting for them.. With not so welcoming hands.. But Kids have made their own world :)..Being a kid again with my lil naughty cousin just made me think..How was I as a child..I think i wanna sing this now..

Give me some sunshine
Give me some rain
Give me another chance
I wanna grow up once again
I wanna cherish the childhood once again
I wanna live the fantasies once again

Love
Anku



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